Elis Ong
@elisongelis


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Elis Ong @elisongelis
on Friday, February 08, 2013 //


Found something really meaningful on NTU Confessions.
""Hi,
im already attached. however i recently like this girl in my clique. we have the exact the same timetable so i get to spend a lot of time with her. i just love her laughter and her easy going attitude and i find her dam cute. Yes its very very wrong, i find myself unfaithful and messed up to feel this way but i just cant control my feelings. I have been trying to control urges to tell her, but i feel i need an outright rejection to ease my mind. Yet, shes in my clique and we got a few years more to graduate. if it turns out bad then it will be dam awkward for school. sucks.""

I was once like you, caught in the middle. In the end, I choose to leave my then gf. Till now I still regret it... In my humble opinion, you should think through about what the 2 of you have been through in your relationship from the start till now. Have you been putting effort in the relationship to make it shine like it used to ?

Reading this may help you to understand things better:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=415450701863341&set=a.275528099188936.64726.275511195857293&type=1&theater

""I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it"""






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