Elis Ong @elisongelis
on Friday, February 08, 2013 //
Found something really meaningful on NTU Confessions.
""Hi,
im already attached. however i recently like this girl in my clique. we
have the exact the same timetable so i get to spend a lot of time with
her. i just love her laughter and her easy going attitude and i find her
dam cute. Yes its very very wrong, i find myself unfaithful and messed
up to feel this way but i just cant control my feelings. I have been
trying to control urges to tell her, but i feel i need an outright
rejection to ease my mind. Yet, shes in my clique and we got a few years
more to graduate. if it turns out bad then it will be dam awkward for
school. sucks.""
I was once
like you, caught in the middle. In the end, I choose to leave my then
gf. Till now I still regret it... In my humble opinion, you should think
through about what the 2 of you have been through in your relationship
from the start till now. Have you been putting effort in the
relationship to make it shine like it used to ?
Reading this may help you to understand things better:
https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=415450701863341&set=a.275528099188936.64726.275511195857293&type=1&theater
""I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You
could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same
situation a few years later. The key to succeeding in a Relationship is
not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you
found. SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You
have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and
energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT
TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it"""